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#39160 - 09/22/05 08:24 PM Odd Turn of events
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I have been in what I think it my only romantic relationship with Narcotic Thrust. Now don't get me wrong I have had sex before, more than enough to fill my needs.

I guess that si the problem, needs and wants. I used to think of sex as just a release. Something I did to get my fix and leave. Yea, you can call me shallow, but i never felt love before, nor have I have interested in my male friends. Narcotic Thrust is the only woman I have had sex with. Not that is not right. We fuck.

So here is my problem, of all the women I have known, Narcotic Thrust is the only one I have even been interested in any sexual way. She is also the first person that I wanted to be close to on a emotional and physical level, but I know that on a physical level she has needs that well far out reach my means.

Should I try to change her, myself?Should I let her go? Or should I just live with I have?
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#39161 - 09/23/05 02:54 PM Re: Odd Turn of events
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If she feels the same way then I don't see a problem... I mean, that's sorta the beginning to anything you'd want, right?

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#39162 - 09/23/05 02:56 PM Re: Odd Turn of events
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Don't try and change her. If you think you have to do so then just walk away. People always say compromise, compromise. How about just finding someone you don't need to compromise with.

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#39163 - 09/23/05 06:35 PM Re: Odd Turn of events
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#39164 - 09/24/05 01:01 AM Re: Odd Turn of events
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I think we need more information before we can do anything with this. Got any pictures for us to look at?
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#39165 - 09/24/05 05:26 AM Re: Odd Turn of events
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If you love someone, set them free. If they come back to you, KILL THEM.

If they come back again, run.

Just run.
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#39166 - 09/24/05 02:16 PM Re: Odd Turn of events
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Wow Fracture you make it sound as if we have dated.

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#39167 - 09/24/05 02:57 PM Re: Odd Turn of events
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Come on, aren't any of you fans of Lenore, the Cute Dead Girl?
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#39168 - 09/24/05 04:50 PM Re: Odd Turn of events
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Well, about the topic i started. She wants more than I am comfortable giving. I feel for the first time in my life that i want a relationship that is more than just sex. She just wants it more than I want. She needs more than I want it. It is the best I have ever had. She doesn't seem to understand this.

Fracture, I am not a fan of just about anything. I have interests in many topics most of them would bore you to death.
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#39169 - 09/26/05 12:05 PM Re: Odd Turn of events
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Well YT I am not sure what else to tell you.
You sound damned if you do, damned if you do not. You ask us for advice but in the end what do you want to do about it?

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#39170 - 09/26/05 03:32 PM Re: Odd Turn of events
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Sex isn't everything, YT. Despite the occasional obsession of others, Regan and I have a relationship that goes a lot deeper than mere physical pleasure and satisfaction. Even after she gained her wings and the instincts that came with them.

Admittedly, our mental link provides a certain intimacy that can't be matched. However, the foundation of what we have was laid down before we experienced anything like what's happening to you (though, I must say: I've never been able to say "no" to her smile ).

Urges, desire, and lust are just elements to a complex relationship between two people, the elements amongst countless others. If Narcotic Thrust wants the same thing as you (a relationship) then you might want to relax and not be so worried. This insatiable sex drive might just be something that's apart of who she is, for better or worse, and it's got to be at least a little flattering that she wants you day in and day out. wink
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#39171 - 09/27/05 01:49 PM Re: Odd Turn of events
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If I knew what I would do. I would ask for advice. I just feel like a moth, but I know the fire will burn me. I just want to be close to it. Now I am not saying that she will kill but I am saying that staying with her will most likely hurt.

I have known Narcotic Thrust for two years now. She was a dear friend long before I even started to think of her in a sexual way. I know a whole lot about her.
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#39172 - 09/27/05 08:55 PM Re: Odd Turn of events
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So...what exactly is the problem, here? Does one of you want something the other doesn't?
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#39173 - 09/30/05 12:23 AM Re: Odd Turn of events
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That's a tough situation, Y.T.... I guess I can't help that much. I mean, I really don't know what I'd do in that situation at all.

Maybe love is supposed to hurt, that's what people always say. It's really sad but everyone keeps saying it...

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